change

I have noticed that things change, a lot.
The friendships that were once strong begin to lose their strength.
We grow, and that means we also grown apart.

Your values change they can grow or they can fade.
Your perspective of wrong and right can begin to blur.
The life you once had planned out can be turned upside down.

You can become brave or turn into a coward.
You can stand up for what you believe in or decide to keep quiet.

What I have noticed is that most of the time people change for the bad.
They begin to not care, they dont feel the same things that they did before.
The relationships that they have worked so hard to get dont matter to them anymore.
They were once so good and now they are just invisible, they used to stand out, they used to stand for something, now they just blend in.

why?

Why would you give up something that was actually important something that was so special and intimate? Why would you give up on the one relationship that wont let you down, that wont hurt you?

Life was made for you to screw up. Life was made hard so you would learn, not so you could lay down and die, hold up the white flag. Life is a challenge, its a competition against yourself so you can better yourself. Instead we are regressing, instead of progressing we give up too easily on the important stuff and conform to living simple, unfullfilled, boring, normal, stupid lives. If God wanted things to be easy for us he would have made it that way, God made life difficult so we can find a life worth living, worth fighting for. A life where you dont fight for something is not a life. If everything got handed to you if you never worked for anything, do you really think that would be a life?

When we fight for something it means that it has a significance, it means something to you.
It means enough that you are willing to give up certain things, certain people, certain addictions.


I dont understand I am sick of it. I tired of the whinning and the ¨ its too hard¨ or the ¨you dont understand¨ If people would stop the procrastinations it would give them enough time to accomplish something something important instead of wasting their breath on complaining.

People think that relationships are soo hard, they arent they should be easy when its right. Dont get me wrong they are difficult but a relationship worth having is a relationship that can be accomodated it is filled with respect and trust. So many people ask why is my relationship so sucky LOOK AT YOUR OWN LIVES.

If you live a life where you have no values where you dont have respect where you dont have a purpose, how is your relationship, any kind of relationship supposed to function? Your relationship will reflect what kind of a person you are. If you live a healthy life you will have a healthy relationship, but it has to be healthy for both of the people. If you have values if you have respect if you have a purpose and you are with someone who doesnt care who doesnt have values who think they deserve stuff because they say so, you WILL NOT have a relationship, at least one worth having.


Everything is based on choice, God gave us a precious gift called FREEDOM.

so why is it impossible for us to use it for something good, maintain something that is difficult but so worth it in the end, something worth fighting for?